by Peter James

When to plant that first kiss? Most of us men only care about when we will get some action for the first time, let alone a measly kiss. This is where we make too many mistakes with women. If you aren't out to get a quick piece of ass, take it slow. You should be able to tell if you are going to get laid quickly. If she has screwed more than two of your friends, you know you will get her in the bag quickly. Often times though it isn't that easy. We want to rush things. If the girl is sweet and she takes over your heart, then there is no reason to make things move to fast. Instead, enjoy her company.

The mistake most men make is that they think they should get a kiss on the first date. In my experience this isn't true. I think that if we rush it too fast, we will end up scaring her away.

Think of it like you are in the woods hunting a deer. If you go in too fast, you will make too much noise and you will scare it away. If you do that, you will end up with no delicious deer meat to fill your stomach.

Instead you go in slow. You walk slowly so you don't make too much noise. You scan the landscape to make sure there is no deer in the area before moving on. If you see that there is no deer, then you slowly creep up to your next waiting spot. You know if you do this, you will eventually get that deer. When you get that deer it will be the most joyful feeling you ever had. You will eat the meat for days to come and enjoy it like it was your first bite.

Your first kiss should be the same way. You should be just like you would be if you were waiting for the deer. Don't push it too fast, or you will scare it away.

What is the hurry? If you hurry too fast you will scare her away. Would you run up behind the deer in the woods? No! You would creep up to it and be patient. You know if you are patient, you will get your kill.

You have to understand her way of thinking. Without understanding how a woman a woman thinks, you will end up putting yourself in a bad situation. Ever wonder why you aren't getting laid? Here is one of the reasons.

Unless she is a crazed slut, she has to be careful. In this day and age of rape and violence towards women, she has no choice. It could save her life. A woman today has a real reason to be afraid. You can pick up any newspaper and almost every time read about some violent act that has taken place on a woman.

She is smart, she is protecting her safety. We are taught from a child to stay away from strangers. Unless your date is your sister, then chances are she doesn't know much about you. If you are going on a date with your sister, I'm afraid I can't help you out. You need professional help.